The Motivated Speaker on Miami WOMEN Presents Webinar

In this Miami Women Presents webinar, Ruth and Acacia discuss the six foundational principles imperative to be a great communicator, with Molly Young from the Miami University Alumni Association.  Throughout, Ruth and Acacia weave personal anecdotes and practical examples to reinforce each of the six principles, making the advice relatable and actionable. Collectively, these six principles form a roadmap for anyone looking to elevate their personal and professional communication skills, enabling stronger relationships, clearer understanding, and more impactful messaging. 

Highlights and Introduction: 

Introduction and Background: (00:04) 

Molly Young from Miami University Alumni Association introduces the topic: six principles for being a great communicator. She welcomes alumni Ruth Milligan and Acacia Duncan, co-authors of “The Motivated Speaker.”

They explain the threshold concepts and their transformative nature in mastering a discipline.

The Six Threshold Concepts: (11:12)

  1. Discussion of the first principle: speaking is habitual.
  • Speaking is not natural
  • Communication is a skill you build over time.
  • You may have to change a new habit for a new audience or situation

2. Discussion of the second principle: speaking is embodied.

  • Writing and speaking are two different skills
  • Align nonverbal cues with spoken words.
  • Great speaking takes practice, specifically in providing transitions

3. Discussion of the third principle: speaking is social.

  • Most troublesome idea
  • Tailor your message to the listener.
  • It doesn’t matter what you say, it’s what the audience hears.
  • Words fade

4. Discussion of the fourth principle: speaking contains multiple genres.

  • Different genres require different preparation
  • You need to adapt for specific setups
  • Lean into intentional interrogation to understand expectations

5. Discussion of the fifth principle: speaking is messy.

  • It’s an iterative process
  • There are many points of entry
  • Flexibility is key

6. Discussion of the sixth principle: speaking requires feedback.

  • Watch and listen to yourself to give yourself feedback
  • Feedback needs to be safe
  • Feedback can be good, bad or not helpful
  • You cannot speak and listen to yourself at the same time

Shaded Habits and Upgrades (23:11)

Acacia and Ruth share stories of real-life clients who displayed “shaded habits.”

  1. Disfluencies
  2. Speed of talking, pacing
  3. Humor in delivery
  4. Non-verbals and body language

 



announcing

the motivated speaker

six principles to unlock your communication potential

In this book you will discover the six essential threshold concepts needed to give talks like the best TED speakers and Fortune 500 leaders.

Also available on Audible.